A few weeks ago, I had the opportunity, courtesy of a politically well-connected friend, to attend a local GOP function featuring Sarah Palin. Not only that, but it was a VIP invitation, which meant admission to a small VIP-only meet-and-greet followed by a front-row seat to the main event. When my friend, Craig, pitched the idea to me, it took less than a nanosecond to accept.

When it was my turn to introduce myself to Governor Palin, I brought up a story I’d heard about her father, a bear, and a local fire department. She was sufficiently intrigued and curious about the story that she tried calling her father to get the details. We had a very nice 5-minute chat while she tried to reach her father on the phone.

I am not a Republican in any way, shape, form, manner, or style. I’m a lifelong political independent. If I were forced to pick a point along the political spectrum that best represented a weighted average of my heterogeneous political positions, it would probably land just a bit right of center. That would make me a “RINO” to most everyone else who attended this event. I’m pretty sure that they might have demonstrated the utility of the AR-15 they raffled off during the fundraiser if they’d known this. The “liberty” wing of the current GOP don’t need no stinking RINOs.

Nonetheless, I had a great time, and I really appreciated the invitation. I found Governor Palin to be genuine and very friendly. I liked her, even if I don’t agree with many of her political ideas. I’d hang out with her, even if I might not vote for her. I think that she’s a person who is honest and genuinely believes in what she says.

She’s authentic, that’s for sure. And her portrayal in much of the media does not jibe with the person that I met that night. Big surprise there.

The photo above is from the VIP meet-and-greet portion of the event, and I posted it on social media that night. The reaction to it was mostly positive, but not uniformly so. There were a number of people who thought that there must be something wrong with me for having my picture taken with Governor Palin. They were not shy about letting me know about it either.

Well, allow me to retort. Why would I not take advantage of a rare opportunity to sit down with a former Governor and candidate for Vice President of the United States to discuss things over hors d'oeuvres and beverages? Only a knucklehead would refuse such an invitation.

I don’t have to love everything about anyone to be willing to talk with them. A position that, alas, seems largely lost in these modern times.

The United States of America is a big place—geographically, culturally, and in terms of sheer numbers of just about everything. We are as diverse a country as there is anywhere on this planet, and that’s a feature, not a bug. Our diversity has historically been a source of not only pride but also strength as a nation. Discussion and debate between disparate factions are woven into the very fabric of our founding ideals. Deliberation in order to sort through competing ideas is an integral part of our political process—by design.

But somewhere along the way, we lost sight of the fact that it’s entirely OK to disagree with one another in this country; it is, in fact, expected. Debate and deliberation were anticipated over time to improve our laws and standards. We don’t live in a benevolent dictatorship; we live in a republic with democratically elected officials. You make your case for what you want, and if your argument is persuasive enough, you may convince enough people to support it to have a shot at enacting it into law.

I flat-out reject the notion that we should all surround ourselves with only the like-minded.

Living in political and social silos is no good in a democracy. It’s not even good, in my view, for your mental health. The only person in the world who thinks exactly like you is you. That’s a mighty lonely place to be if that’s as far as you want to go for edification.

I think that it’s just fine to not only hang out with but also be friends with people who are quite unlike you. My own requirements for friendship have almost nothing to do with political or religious ideals and everything to do with the content of a person’s character. If you are a good person, we are going to get along just fine, almost no matter what you believe.

I walk the walk too; I even hang out with Bigfoot people.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being willing to talk with those with whom you disagree. In fact, it’s expected in our form of government. The fact that we’ve lost sight of this is a large part of the reason that our politics are currently so knackered.

There’s also nothing wrong with showing some respect for others, especially people who’ve achieved something, even if it’s not to your exact taste. On this point, Sarah Palin has been elected to a variety of political offices and was a candidate for Vice President of the United States. By all accounts, she’s been a reasonably good public official in a variety of roles in Alaska (albeit a cultural lightning rod). Though I disagree with the Governor on many issues, I think that she’s reasonably competent and sincere. Alaskans could have done far worse.

I don’t give a hoot in hell whether anyone agrees with me on everything or not. I care far more about your character and what you’ve managed to accomplish in this world. I count among my friends and acquaintances people of all political persuasions. And I would not have it any other way.

Associated Press and Idaho Press Club-winning columnist Martin Hackworth of Pocatello is a physicist, writer and retired Idaho State University faculty member who now spends his time with family, riding bicycles and motorcycles, arranging and playing music. Follow him on Twitter @MartinHackworth.

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Old Crow

Remember when Rosalynn Carter posed with

John Wayne Gacy? This gives me similar vibes.

It looks like Marty Mcfly likes to stalk Republicans. Sarah probably needs an exorcism now.

wildbill789

Martin, you clean-up good for a poor boy from the holler in Eastern Kentucky. Did you have your hand on her as...s while standing there for the photo op?

Old Crow

I hope Sarah washed her hands after that greeting, a cold clammy handshake is all it

Would take to spread that poison jab. The

"Vaccine" can be spread through kissing, through

Sex......and probably through Marty's stinking breath. The vaccinated sheep are walking, talking

Shedders of that poison.

red in blue

Do you think Hackworth had sex with her? I'll bet he did. That sly old rascal just doesn't want to brag. (Not much)

Old Crow

She knew what kind of leftist slimeball you were,

She was just being polite to take the photo. That's

Really typically low of you democrats....do you

Think that I would ever want to stand next to

Hollery like that? You people are a new kind of evil. I can't get on Facebook, but I did manage to

See that girl on your cover page. I thought....is that Hackworths daughter? Then I realized....

It was you, with a Bruce Jenner volleyball coach

Haircut. Freaking hilarious.

red in blue

Now I'm back to being Hackworth again? Yup. Freaking hilarious.

Old Crow

You get to be whomever I choose since you are

Too cowardly to admit who you are. This week

That red in blue douchebag is the well-known

POS Marty Hackworth.....who went through his

Teen years with a Bruce Jenner cut.....looked like

A girls soccer coach.

red in blue

It just cracks me up that you think these ISJ columnists would give you a second thought, much less interact with you. In fact it's getting kind of boring for me too. I think if people didn't react to your desperate cries for attention, it would ruin your pathetic life. So......bye

Old Crow

They answer all the time you arrogant boo-b....and

I eviscerate them just like I do you......B.....bye.

Old Crow

Sarah Palin needs to read red in blues posts to see what sort of scumbag she was shoulder to shoulder with. I certainly hope she didn't leave

Her drink unattended to. He could have simply

Shed his new vaccine all over those Republicans

Like biological warfare......just call Hackworth

Typhoid Mary.

red in blue

Wow- impressive. Now Hackworth should try to get his picture taken with Kari Lake and Herschel Walker.

Old Crow

It's just typical of leftists like you to try and infiltrate the opposition. He is you, you are him.

Just read red in blues posts to see how that hack

Hackworth rally feels about idaho Republicans.

Old Crow

Bit right of center? Walk on road......walk right side, safe......walk left side, safe......walk middle

Get squished like grape.

Old Crow

Hackworth strikes me as a vaccinated sheep...

Baaaaaaa......are you a 7 shot booster boy Martin?

Old Crow

Hackworth is lowlife scum to rub shoulders with

Republicans pretending to be one of them. He reminds me of that red in blue douchebag.

Sarah didn't deserve to have that slimy snake

Slither up to her. Whatever "friend" got him in,

Should be kicked out of the Republican party.

Wasn't there any security? I assume that those Republicans have read his columns....why wasn't

That rat dragged out by his ears?

Mike Mathews

martin looks like trump when he met putin in Finland.

Old Crow

He dresses like Michael Savage.

Old Crow

A politically well connected friend? Maybe that

Traitor should be outed. This is how these radical leftists infiltrate us folks. I'm surprised that this

Douchebag didn't hit Sarah with a pie or an egg

Or a glitter bomb.....these democrats can't be trusted among normal Americans. If you so obviously despise Sarah Palin as well as other

Republicans, why in the he-ll would you want to meet them? These are the lowlife tactics of the

democrat.....to infiltrate, spy, sabotage, whenever

Possible. I'm sure old Martin probably surreptitiously recorded this engagement to

Catch Sarah saying something the democrats

Can use against her. democrats are scum.